Friday, January 10, 2020
Olusola The Critic: Puzzled mind
Olusola The Critic: Puzzled mind: *Puzzled mind��* Good morning. Now on the issue on this is what we have to say. It is true that the heartbreak that break-up gives migh...
Puzzled mind
*Puzzled mind🤔*
Good morning.
Now on the issue on this is what we have to say.
It is true that the heartbreak that break-up gives might be unbearable sometimes and the pain might be untold, yet the best solution is not to have contingency boyfriend.
Contingency boyfriend doesn't provide longlasting to the problem of break up. It might only seems to. Fine it is good to have friends aside your boyfriend or girl, in fact it is good to be friendly to people but nis with the ulterior motive of dating them when ur boyfriend leaves but for the sake of friendship and friendship only though it might turn out that one of them becomes your boyfriend later but that was not the initial motive. It just came.
Do you know what contingency boyfriend will cost you?
1. it will cost you your focus in your present relationship. You won't have a full focus on your real boyfriend.
2. It will cost you commitment in relationship. You won't be committed to your spouse because you have alternative boyfriend.
3. It constantly put you to be comparing your boyfriend. You will never be satisfy with whatever he does, you will always be complaining and comparing your boyfriend with your contingency boyfriend.
4. Your boyfriend will always be feeling in your relationship because your actions in your relationship with him will always reflect to him that he's in competition with someone.
5. You will be putting your man to jealousy. Etc.
Break up is mostly caused by any of the above mentioned points. So contingency boyfriend is never a solution to break up but one of the causes.
Just as infidelity is mostly the cause of divorce in marriage contingency boyfriend is mostly the cause of break up in relationships.
What can you do to avoid break up.
1. Make sure you are valuable. Not just that you are beautiful. Beauty only attracts value sustains.
2. Always watch your character. Character is very important in sustaining a relationship.
3. Make you learn how to accept mistakes don't be always right. Etc.
After all these if breakup comes first know that its either the man is not for you or you are not for the man. And sometimes break up is not always forever. Some break up and later come back to become husband and wife. That break up at that moment might be for your good. So first when break up comes don't be down but be comforted because its either for your good or for a moment. God is powerful He might have caused it.
And if break up happens be calm God will do the best.
Above all make sure you try all possible best to make your relationship work.
Follow this link to join my WhatsApp group: https://chat.whatsapp.com/L6WPjmqxAlZ7ucHvbTP0K6
Good morning.
Now on the issue on this is what we have to say.
It is true that the heartbreak that break-up gives might be unbearable sometimes and the pain might be untold, yet the best solution is not to have contingency boyfriend.
Contingency boyfriend doesn't provide longlasting to the problem of break up. It might only seems to. Fine it is good to have friends aside your boyfriend or girl, in fact it is good to be friendly to people but nis with the ulterior motive of dating them when ur boyfriend leaves but for the sake of friendship and friendship only though it might turn out that one of them becomes your boyfriend later but that was not the initial motive. It just came.
Do you know what contingency boyfriend will cost you?
1. it will cost you your focus in your present relationship. You won't have a full focus on your real boyfriend.
2. It will cost you commitment in relationship. You won't be committed to your spouse because you have alternative boyfriend.
3. It constantly put you to be comparing your boyfriend. You will never be satisfy with whatever he does, you will always be complaining and comparing your boyfriend with your contingency boyfriend.
4. Your boyfriend will always be feeling in your relationship because your actions in your relationship with him will always reflect to him that he's in competition with someone.
5. You will be putting your man to jealousy. Etc.
Break up is mostly caused by any of the above mentioned points. So contingency boyfriend is never a solution to break up but one of the causes.
Just as infidelity is mostly the cause of divorce in marriage contingency boyfriend is mostly the cause of break up in relationships.
What can you do to avoid break up.
1. Make sure you are valuable. Not just that you are beautiful. Beauty only attracts value sustains.
2. Always watch your character. Character is very important in sustaining a relationship.
3. Make you learn how to accept mistakes don't be always right. Etc.
After all these if breakup comes first know that its either the man is not for you or you are not for the man. And sometimes break up is not always forever. Some break up and later come back to become husband and wife. That break up at that moment might be for your good. So first when break up comes don't be down but be comforted because its either for your good or for a moment. God is powerful He might have caused it.
And if break up happens be calm God will do the best.
Above all make sure you try all possible best to make your relationship work.
Follow this link to join my WhatsApp group: https://chat.whatsapp.com/L6WPjmqxAlZ7ucHvbTP0K6
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